National Adoption Month
National Adoption Month is an initiative of the Children's Bureau that seeks to increase national awareness of adoption issues, bring attention to the need for adoptive families for teens in the U.S. foster care system, and emphasize the value of youth engagement. The initiative began as National Adoption Week in 1984, as proclaimed by President Reagan. President Clinton then proclaimed the first National Adoption Month in 1995.
The theme for 2023's National Adoption Month is Empowering Youth: Finding Points of Connection.
National Adoption Month also includes National Adoption Day, which is observed on the Saturday before Thanksgiving. This year it falls on November 18th, providing an ideal opportunity for communities and families to come together to celebrate adoption and finalize adoptions for children in foster care. World Adoption Day is also celebrated on November 9, and is a global awareness day for this important cause.
Language matters, so using positive adoption language reflects the true nature of adoption. Check out the recommendations below:
Birth parent |
Real parent |
Biological parent |
Natural parent |
Birth child |
Own child |
My child |
Adopted child, own child |
Born to unmarried parents |
Illegitimate |
Terminate parental rights |
Give up |
Make an adoption plan |
Give away |
To parent |
To keep |
Waiting child |
Adoptable child, available child |
Biological or birth father |
Real father |
Making contact with |
Reunion |
Parent |
Adoptive parent |
Inter-country adoption |
Foreign adoption |
Adoption triad |
Adoption triangle |
Search |
Track down parents |
Child placed for adoption |
An unwanted child |
Court termination |
Child taken away |
Child with special needs |
Handicapped child |
Was adopted |
Is adopted |